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Ask Layla: ‘I’m in love with my situationship but they don’t feel the same way’

‘It's hard to face that someone doesn’t share the same feelings as you. Instead of self-blame and criticism, honour your reasons for being in the situation, says Irish Tatler’s advice columnist Layla Voll-Collins

‘It’s scary to jump out of the warm water, but what is the alternative if you don’t? If you want a real relationship with dates and hanging out, that’s what you need to pursue,’ says psychologist Layla Voll-Collins